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Tuesday, September 16, 2008

They will run and not grow weary.

Have you ever read something many times, understanding it, and not thinking much about it, until one day, you read it, and it suddenly comes alive for you? It doesn't happen for me very often, but I was reading Isaiah the other day, and came across these verses from chapter 40:

28 Do you not know?
       Have you not heard?
       The LORD is the everlasting God,
       the Creator of the ends of the earth.
       He will not grow tired or weary,
       and his understanding no one can fathom.

 29 He gives strength to the weary
       and increases the power of the weak.

 30 Even youths grow tired and weary,
       and young men stumble and fall;

 31 but those who hope in the LORD
       will renew their strength.
       They will soar on wings like eagles;
       they will run and not grow weary,
       they will walk and not be faint.

I was feeling kind of low that day, and discouraged about my research and despairing of ever graduating. I was reading verse 29, when suddenly, I realized: I am weak, and weary, and that God is promising me that He will give me strength! I soared on the rest of the promise that day---that as I hope in God, he will renew my strength and that I can continue to run and not grow weary.

I think that despite knowing in my head that God loves me because of who He is, and not who I am, I still have a tendency to fall into the trap of feeling, albeit subconciously, that God only gives good things to people who are stronger, more faithful, or more courageous than me. But the truth is that it is only through His strength that I can be stronger, more faithful and more courageous. What a happy thought!


Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Thank you, Jen!

"A woman's heart should be so lost in God that a man needs to seek Him in order to find her."


Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Other people's thoughts...

I pay very little regard...to what any young person says on the subject of marriage. If they profess a disinclination for it, I only set it down that they have not yet seen the right person.
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Jane Austen (1775 - 1817), Mansfield Park
I used to believe that marriage would diminish me, reduce my options. That you had to be someone less to live with someone else when, of course, you have to be someone more.
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Candice Bergen (1946 - )
A successful marriage is an edifice that must be rebuilt every day.
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Andre Maurois (1885 - 1967)
That is what marriage really means: helping one another to reach the full status of being persons, responsible and autonomous beings who do not run away from life.
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Paul Tournier
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
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Mignon McLaughlin
A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.
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Dave Meurer, "Daze of Our Wives"
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments: love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds.
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William Shakespeare (1564 - 1616), Sonnet cxvi
Nearly all marriages, even happy ones, are mistakes: in the sense that almost certainly (in a more perfect world, or even with a little more care in this very imperfect one) both partners might be found more suitable mates. But the real soul-mate is the one you are actually married to.
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J. R. R. Tolkien (1892 - 1973), Letter to Michael Tolkien, March 1941
I've yet to be on a campus where most women weren't worrying about some aspect of combining marriage, children, and a career. I've yet to find one where many men were worrying about the same thing.
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Gloria Steinem (1934 - )
Marriage is the alliance of two people, one of whom never remembers birthdays and the other never forgets them.
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Ogden Nash (1902 - 1971)
Before marriage, a man declares that he would lay down his life to serve you; after marriage, he won't even lay down his newspaper to talk to you.
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Helen Rowland (1876 - 1950)

The most happy marriage I can imagine to myself would be the union of a deaf man to a blind woman.
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Samuel Taylor Coleridge (1772 - 1834)
Those who restrain desire, do so because theirs is weak enough to be restrained.
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William Blake (1757 - 1827), The Marriage of Heaven and Hell (c. 1790-1793)


Sunday, September 30, 2007

I couldn't resist this "personality test"...

   
                   
   
        Which L.M. Montgomery Heroine are You?    
   

You're Emily of New Moon. You're funny, and independent, but often stubborn. You've wanted to be a writer your whole life, and are very talented and intelligent.  Read more about Emily Starr in L.M. Montgomery's EMILY OF NEW MOON, EMILY CLIMBS, and EMILY's QUEST.
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Monday, March 19, 2007

Fearless

I recently read a short article about Arianna Huffington and her book "On Becoming Fearless.... in Love, Work, and Life". It was really interesting. I can't remember the entire article, but here are the tips I do remember on how to be fearless:

  • Ignore your inner critic. Don't let the "mean girl" in your head deplete your confidence in yourself.
  • Make sure you spend time with your friends---people who care about you and support you. Stay away from people who make you feel bad about yourself.
  • Be brave. Don't wait until you feel fearless to do something. Realize that it's okay to try and fail.
I remember a conversation I had with a friend once, about fearlessness and failure. What we decided was that in order to fulfill your potential, you have to fail. If you're not failing, then you have too big a buffer between what you're actually achieving and what you can achieve.



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